And it was a night before her solo trip. Deep inside she was scared, she wanted to lock her in her comfort zone, in her room of fear and never come out from it.
Anjali, a young and a charming 22-year-old girl, had got the biggest opportunity from her job and had to travel overseas the other morning for 3 months.
Like every other girl, she had no courage to face it all alone. She had often tried to delay this opportunity in every other way she could. But now it was out of her hands She knew one day this had to happen and so today was the day.
Anjali actually was bold and smart but somehow, she had a fear of going out of her own space. She always felt that the world outside had their eagle eye on her and that they would always wait for her to commit a mistake. Although she had always been an optimistic person, but like every other person, even she had some hidden fright.
So Anjali, who was just like us in every other way, thought of taking up this challenge and giving it a try.
Yes, you read it right — She chose to face her fear (Not all of us have the same courage)
The other morning, while at the airport when she was about to board her first flight, she actually looked like a 2-year-old kid whose candy had been stolen. She was much horrified from inside but on her face she never let that appear. With full confidence, she boarded the flight and landed in Chicago. Her first journey boosted her so much that it almost appeared like she had known this unknown city for long.
So the next step was again a rooted fear – staying alone in a Hotel room. But that day it turned out to be different. All of sudden when she entered the room it felt like it was a pleasant one. Though at night she was a bit scared she kept on fighting with her mind and later slept in peace.
The next 3 months turned out like a miracle for her. Yes at times she did face some difficulties like she often used to forget the roads and end up in the almost opposite direction. But she had learnt that even the wrong paths might end up in a beautiful experience. Even at her workplace, people around her turned out to be friends with her in no time and which eventually helped her in performing better and better.
Anjali had found a new soul inside her. Her fear had disappeared like a bubble popping from a soap-bubble. It just took 16 hours of flight to make her confident enough. That’s how her story changed and keeping aside all the minor hurdles she always succeeded.
So what exactly is this FEAR???
The fear which can be of any type.. may it be a fear of darkness, or of height, or of water, or of being alone, or of travelling and on and on.
But the question here lies is: Does Fear actually exist??
The answer to it is “NO“. In real fear is just an abstract thought in our mind. How we actually face our fear depends on us. The more we give importance to our fear the more it suppresses us.