At different stages in Life, we crave for different things.
We endeavour to achieve. At times, we even fail. But the question here lies is :
Do we always see this failure as another step of success?
Are we wise enough to take it in a positive way?
Perhaps answer to this might vary.
Some dig in to find the root cause and thereby improve to achieve it.
While others rather than finding the cause of failure turn greedy. Here is when we lose our state of mind. The greed of something often leads to impatience. Impatience can rather be called fear. It may be a fear of failure or fear of losing something/someone. Fear sometimes provokes a person and at times the person even steps back. Here is where we need to work.
Fear, Impatience, Frustration, Greed all such feelings might swirl in our mind. Sometimes even small conversations with a person might agitate us. Even if the conversation ends in real still in mind we start pondering about it.
As rightly said ‘A moment of patience in a moment of anger saves a thousand moments of Regret.’
To accept what’s happening requires huge efforts. It’s not always that we might not acquire what we want. But when such an unfavourable situation occurs, we just have to be patient enough to overcome it. For everything that happens, happens for a reason. It is going to be fruitful one day if we learn to lacerate it.
We always have two ways to deal with it: Either to WAIT or to MOVE on. If we are confident enough that waiting for it won’t ever lead to impatience then we should always go with it. Sometimes waiting for desire leads to pain. And pain often leads to eradication. When a person is hurt, he either takes revenge or hurts himself. This does not mean that we should not attempt to achieve your desire. But we should always set a limit for till when are we going to strive for it. When the limit is crossed, the wiser step would be is to MOVE on.
We can’t hold anything forcefully in our fist. If it is ours than somewhere we might get it back but if not then there’s always something better holding for us. We just have to give our best efforts and be ready to accept whatever comes on the way.
You don’t drown by falling in water. You drown by staying there.
Be strong enough to Let Go and Patient enough to wait for what you deserve.